

"My Story Is Important"
"On the healing journey, we learn what happened to us, we realize that it mattered, and we find out where we go next. Soon we will be...


"You're Just Like Your Father"
Whether we like it or not, the wounds from our parents direct future patterns and ways we relate to others, especially in our closest...


"Letter to Little Me"
If you want to forgive, love, and accept others, then you must be willing to forgive, love, and accept yourself. Recently, a young woman...


"Because of You"
This is a very powerful teaching that should not be missed. We asked a client who had been abused as a child to personalize the lyrics...


"Am I Trusting in Me or You?"
Jerry and I normally pray God’s armor of defense and protection around us every day (see Eph. 6:10-17). Now here is where it may get...


"Do You Do This?"
Our walls of protection that we learned growing up place our trust in our own power rather than in God to be our defense, our protection,...


"More Power to the Shields!"
When we put up our guard, our shields, our fortified walls, then the energy to keep them in place has to come from somewhere. It takes...


"Did It Matter to God?"
When we work with counselees, we ask them to reflect on different needs that we believe God says are important to our childhood...


The Story Behind "The Missing Commandment: Love Yourself"
Our book, The Missing Commandment: Love Yourself, is about the heart—your heart and ours. From the very beginning of our counseling...




