Many years ago, we heard these questions used by another ministry and it stayed with us throughout our years of counseling.  Actually, these three questions can be applied in a variety of situations where a decision is needed.  However, we found it to be most helpful when referring to issues of the heart and whether or not healing--especially relational healing--is needed.  Let me (Jerry) make this more personal. A Personal Application - The Power of Fear (Shame) For as far b